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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - July 7, 2009

July 7, 2009 – 8:52 am

“I want to stop craving ice cream and candy”, or “I want to learn to cook, so I can eat at home”, are things patients frequently say to me as they begin to contemplate new lifestyle changes that will hopefully lead to lasting weight loss. Unfortunately, it is not likely that restricting calories enough to lose 20-30 pounds in three months will also result in changing a 30 year-old habit of using sweets to manage difficult feelings.

If only the path to changing familiar, deeply entrenched coping skills was paved with perfectly balanced meal plans and calorie controlled menu items. Read the rest of this entry »

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - June 4, 2009

June 4, 2009 – 7:37 am

Decisions are hard to make. And, they are even harder to stick by once they’ve been made, aren’t they?  Stuff comes up, it’s difficult to stay on the straight and narrow and contemplating what it will be like to live without the thing that we are most comforted by is just plain terrifying.  In fact, in the heat of the moment, I find myself regressing (if not completely, at least partially) by giving in on one or more levels to the very thing I’ve decided to stop doing.  Why?  What happens when we wake up and make the decision: I will eat 1,100 calories today. Yet, by 5:30 our resolve is out the window? Read the rest of this entry »

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - May 12, 2009

May 12, 2009 – 11:07 am

“So, what’s the plan?” I ask a patient who is concerned about his weight creeping up three pounds this week. “I guess I need to get back to exercising,” he replies, stepping off the scale, his attention completely focused on putting his shoes back on his feet. “That’s certainly one idea,” I say, but I know better than to just leave it at that. He’s come in to get some feedback, both from the scale and from me, and I’ve been doing this too long to imagine that doing the same thing without a definitive plan will get us where we want to be. So I ask again, “What’s the plan, Kent?”

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - April 21, 2009

April 21, 2009 – 7:51 am

As part of my son’s homeschooling curriculum, we are studying Romeo and Juliet. After watching Italian director, Franco Zeffirelli’s version of the play last night, I’m feeling connected to the impetuous teen alive in me. Do you ever feel him or her come to life in you? You know, that part of us that wants what we want-so much so that we would be willing to drink poison from a vial in order to get it? Or how about the feeling where we just want what we want because it feels good in that moment? We abandon all care for the consequences of our actions; in fact, we can’t see the big picture at all-only this moment-and we act on it. Read the rest of this entry »

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - March 30, 2009

March 30, 2009 – 7:18 am

“Just let them eat pizza,” my father said after I spent ten minutes detailing the completely overwhelming experience of moving, working, homeschooling my 15 year old son, trying to get enough sleep, exercise and eat something remotely nutritional this past week. “The only problem is I’ve given them pizza for the last three days in a row,” I replied, exhausted, irritable, feeling a bit like a fraud. “I’m supposed to know how to hold it together and eat well.” But it happens to everyone. Pizza and all.

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - February 24, 2009

February 26, 2009 – 3:58 pm

“Come sit with me, Mom,” my younger son, Brandon said last night when I told him his dinner was ready. It struck me in that small moment before I turned off all of the other burners, the pot of brown rice, the stir-fry chicken, the green beans, that I never sit anymore. I don’t sit and eat meals with my children, I haven’t read a book in weeks, and the only time I’m in one place for an extended period of time is when I’m at the computer or driving. Sound familiar?

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - February 10, 2009

February 10, 2009 – 10:59 am

DIVE IN!Ok, so I didn’t get the information about our new monthly support group out until last week and our first meeting is on Wednesday (2/11/09). As much as I wished I could have gotten the information out a month ago, I just didn’t have all the pieces in place to make it happen any sooner. The next day I received several replies from people who would like to come in and get reconnected with us, but they can’t make it on such short notice. One woman who has been out of touch for almost 2 years wrote, “I’m so glad I’m still getting these emails. I need to do something because I feel out of control. I’ve let things go, and now I’m not sure where to begin - again.” No problem, I say. No problem at all.

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - January 28, 2009

January 28, 2009 – 7:30 am

http://weightloss.mymethodistblog.comEach week I look for themes in the questions and challenges patients bring into our clinic. I am listening for the deeper messages being conveyed by the seemingly unrelated statements patients make about their lives. What I am amazed by is how often we miss the connection between what is happening on the outside (weight gain, lack of energy, relentless hunger, low sex drive) and its relationship to what is happening on the inside (fear of aging, fear of losing control, disappointed, feeling powerless over others or situations, overwhelmed, loss-need I say more?). This is the short list, to be sure.

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - January 12, 2009

January 14, 2009 – 4:49 pm

“Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of the things which matter least.”

~Johan Goethe

I can’t tell you how many people I saw in clinic this week who said things like: “Help! I’ve lost control.” Or “I’ve been putting this off, and now I’m ready.” Or “I need to lose this weight. Tell me what I need to do.” Some were part of our New Beginnings Restart class-ready to jump start their weight loss goals by using all beverage, some were here because they gained five or ten pounds over the holidays and needed to refocus, some were here just because their pants felt tight that morning. No matter the reason, the message was the same. ‘I matter, my health matters, and I’ve been paying attention to something else, something of much less importance. Can you help me get back on track?” Read the rest of this entry »

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Staying Connected to The Weight Management Center - December 24, 2008

December 24, 2008 – 9:09 am

The holidays inspire me to look for the deeper meaning in the experiences of my everyday life. Like last week after my son (the one who recently had his wisdom teeth removed) said to me, “Mom, my mouth is hurting again. Sometimes I don’t tell you when it hurts-I just hope the pain will go away. Today, it’s really bad though.” Ok, sure, he needed his mouth reopened, restitched and another round of antibiotics in order to get back on track, but we all have set backs, right? And a few days after Bryan’s set back he was ready to face the world again. His words the day after he started feeling better hit me as one of those deeper messages I want to share today, “I sure am glad we stopped it when we did.”

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